i was doing my moral assignment... my topic for the assignment is "penguguran dan pencegahan kehamilan"... seems like every semester i have to touch on this issue... i still remember the last topic was about STD (sexually transmitted disease) for english presentation...

so i did my research on the pencegahan kehamilan... according to the research, condom is not really save... the percentages of getting pregnant is 3-5%... which i considered it as quite high... meanwhile, the withdrawal method carries 4% of getting pregnant... so, from here i would suggest "why use condom while the percentages is even higher than withdrawal...?" it's only my suggestion... don't follow... so what for go for condom that does not give much pleasures...? ALL THE ABOVE ARE MY POINT OF VIEW ONLY...

i believe that everyone define sex differently... i, myself do not have a proper definition of sex... for me sex is intimacy... sex is pleasurable... sex is fun... sex is happiness... sex is, hmmm i don't really know... there are so many comes into my mind when the word sex is mentioned... i have something on my mind now... once you decide to have sex, it means that you have already mentally ready for pregnancy... if you do not wish to get pregnant, dont have sex... it is so pointless to use contraception to avoid pregnancy.. the best way of not getting pregnant is DO NOT HAVE SEX... (harsh...? that's reality...)

i've been practising sex since three years ago... and my partner and i never ever use any contraception... we practice withdrawal... *practice makes perfect*... and the result is two to three years without fail... that time we decided to have sex because his cousin asks him to have sex with the girl he really want... im willing to give him myself because of one word *LOVE*... and im not afraid of getting pregnant... getting pregnant is part of your life for females... the point is whether it comes early or late... and im ok with getting pregnant earlier... i also think that getting pregnant won't stop you from doing what you want to do... for example, going for college... you can still go to college even you are pregnant...

i always don't agree with people who go for abortion... people should be responsible on what they have done and not run from the responsibility... the small life inside your body is innocent... you choose to end his/her life, you are a murderer... there's once my friend told me her friend is going for abortion... i told her, if she don't want the baby, she can give me that baby... i told sin wei the same thing, and he also said the same thing as me... but end up that girl went to do the operation... luckily she's not my friend... if not, i think i will very hate her...

hmmm, back to my research... two days ago i went online to check out something... "can human have sex every day...?" the result is human can have sex every day... it is to "throw" away the old sperm and produce new one... so in other words, the more often you have sex, the stronger the sperm would be... so, people who want to have baby can practise this... at first i thought having sex every day can cause death... hahaha... then i found out something... i still remember during form 3 science class, teacher told us sperm can live in females body for 72 hours, which means 3 days... but online source told me i was wrong... sperm can live in females body for 5-7 days... hmmm, something that's really new to me... then i was thinking it will be easier to get pregnant in this way...

hey guys, i've change my mind... i don't want one and only baby boy... i want two children... a baby boy and a baby girl... that's better i can get a twins...

hope that this post does not offend anyone... some read this already will have this thing on their mind... "yer, i don't know she's this kind of people"... yes, im this kind of people... hahaha... im getting more and more open-minded already... maybe tomorrow you will get the news that im pregnant or getting married... hahahaha... just kidding...

by Adrienne
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